INTEGRITY OF WOMANHOOD....

A woman is a creation of the almighty living in form of a goddess or rather an angel in this world. A woman wears many hats and makes all the sacrifices and compromises to play several roles in her life...Starting right from taking birth as an infant, then a dutiful daughter, a loving sister, a doting and caring wife and most importantly "A MOTHER" and lastly a cute "GRANDMOTHER" that stands most special out of all. Again on the other side SHE crosses several stages in her life, right from being a girl to a lady and then blossoming into a WOMAN.She is one who is blessed with immense power by the almighty to carry a child in her womb for nine long months, bearing all the pains to bring her child in form of an angel on the face of this earth at the cost of risking her own breath. She is the one who nurtures a child with her own hand at the same time teaching her MAN to do the same and makes him more grounded and responsible. She is just not giving birth to a child but a rebirth to a MAN, a sudden transformation from being a doting husband to a dutiful and caring FATHER, on the other hand a SON to a BROTHER, a DAUGHTER to a SISTER which is another GIFT OF LIFE. I have often come across many women repenting on the fact of being born as a female.Well, even I was in the same shoes some months back...but now being a true philanthrope and having a pure feminist inclination towards all odds in the society I feel that starting from the Love of 'ADAM and EVE' which was in form of elixir,one should be proud of being a woman because had it not been 'SHE' then their wouldn't have been any 'HE' on this earth in terms of being a single individual.

We all worship several goddess day in and day out for our own wishes and desires in life,be it MA SARASWATI, MA LAXMI, MA DURGA, MA KALI or MOTHER MARY, one should also keep this in mind that their is a deity breathing in every woman's soul in all these forms of goddesses. So every female should be truly boasting on the fact that a woman is a reincarnation of a goddess who is supposed to be worshiped and not let her life get sparkled with torment and tortures, rebukes or seen with unfaithful hungry eyes indirectly demeaning the sanctity of her significance in this world. She shares equal rights as a man does.Its highly obnoxious if one worships these goddesses in a temple imploring her rather begging her performing all rituals in terms of money, fruits, gold accessories and all materialistic forms craving for a baby boy and not a girl child in their daughters' or daughter in laws' womb and also their own just because of this wrong preconceived notion that taking birth in the form of a female is a sin.Well mates, praying these divine spirits for such wants and desires is an equal sin too and a humiliation to these deities as they too happen to be in the form of a female.One should know that its only a woman who has the courage to brave upon all impediments,stumbling blocks in life making all sacrifices and compromises to prove the essence of love and care with strength in her which is a symbol of Womanhood again. So never do the mistake of criticizing 'HER' existence and sometimes at the fact of her not being externally beautiful but praise her of being beautiful and elegant in and out.

Apart from playing the above functionaries, this particular gender holds an array of iconic significance. To cite a few examples, any nation far across the globe is always represented in terms of a female gender. So in this context we can describe her to be a symbolic representation of her motherland which is again a pride to womanhood linked with patriotism. Also, when we talk about a sailing ship it is again addressed as "SHE" which personifies a living object in form of a female. So the word "SHE" or "HER" holds a lot of iconic weightage where we often do a mistake of turning a blind eye to.

Well,this is where the INTEGRITY OF A WOMAN lies....So all the readers, do start respecting womanhood from today onwards  in all forms and facets of its own significance and existence....

Yours Truly...
A Woman!!!

HUMANISM...ITS CORE MEANING!

Being a good human first signifies in being what YOU are ever since you were born on the face of this earth....A pure human being is one who should keep himself or herself away from any inhuman acts or evil deeds like jealousy, revenge, repugnance and hostility that is often leading to wars taking place in several nations, taking away lives of the innocents which is slowly creating an eerie feeling in the name of MANKIND. If I as an individual has to set myself as an example of being a human, I would like to describe myself as a creation of the almighty where I AM NOT BORN TO HATE OTHERS BUT BORN TO IMPART LOVE AND AFFECTION with a caring touch...
 
We all make mistakes as we all know "To Err is Human" ...some do learn from it and some do not...but to forgive and forget is the first attempt of humanism to let it go by with a snap of a finger and invite the other again as a close mate which calls for a feminist approach in being a TRUE HUMAN...A motherly touch...a warmth of a divine spirit, a deity, resurrection of CHRIST JESUS AND MOTHER MARY that would inject the act of salvation and not hostility...save others from pugnacious attempts...The rise of an eternal soul that would impart LOVE in form of elixir....stop the world from taking away life of others rather gifting life in those who yearns for it. If one ever believes in reincarnation or renaissance then one should know that if you are born as a human being in this birth then you must have had made innumerable graceful deeds in your previous births...and god has thus bestowed on you the gift of life by being a TRUE HUMAN BEING AGAIN for rendering some good work...giving help to those who fights with every second for surviving...wiping their tears to bring a smile with a close warm hug, giving food to them who are hungry, water to them for quenching thirst, shelter for protecting them from natural calamities .They are all in this world in form of beggars and the old people who are not taken care by their children once they grow up.... well in true sense they are not beggars mates...rather they are the other side of the world in form of GOD whom we often turn a blind eye to but they are the ones who would not curse you rather always keep their blessings for gifting you a blissful life ahead...

A true human is one who wouldn't like to invite foes, but friends by standing at one step in lending her/his hand to those people who needs it, remove the feel of being antagonists but being beside you when time is against your sail ,to help you to brave upon all impediments in life through thick and thin...one who will show that “THE GIFT OF LIFE IS LIFE ITSELF”, one who will heal your wounds and make all efforts to remove the melancholic feel of the other and show you that LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL and stir you up to give rise to the eternal spirit of yours to move forward, to add a mellifluous and melodious tune to set your life in a proper rhythm, help you to rise above all circumstances that caused innumerable setbacks and rewrite your destiny again, and thus bringing out the essence of the statement that "A Friend in need is a friend indeed”.

So being a human is just not holding the significance of being in a living form, but playing the role of all...wearing many hats of being a compassionate friend, a faithful guide, a philosopher, a lover, a caring mother or a father ,a dutiful son or a daughter, a loving sister or a brother, a doting wife or a husband and above all a righteous and godly person holding the sanctity of love and affection, rendering humane treatments to all forms of lives in the name of MANKIND.